There's something that you were too quick to judge. Sometimes you place too quick of judgment on yourself but for the majority of yall are just jumping to conclusions without all the information. You may have even switched up on someone because of this. I am here to tell you that this was a premature decision. This person may be younger than you or they may be less experienced than you. Try and approach the situation with love and understanding. You once did not know the things you know now. Protect your energy. You can only control how you respond to outside situations.